If your relationship with food or your body has felt frustrating…
there’s a reason for that
And it's not what you think...
Start Anywhere
Why You Don’t Need a “Solid Foundation” to Change Your Body
At a dinner party a friend kept asking me how to build a solid foundation for lasting change. We talked in circles for an hour before I realized we were thinking from completely different paradigms. Here's what he was missing — and what actually creates lasting results.
Why Accepting Your Body Isn’t Giving Up — It’s the Most Powerful Thing You Can Do
"How do I accept my body the way it is when I can't stand it?" It's the question I hear most. And I get it — in the diet and exercise world, acceptance means defeat. But that's not what acceptance actually is. Here's the distinction that changes everything.
Why “Your Thoughts Create Your Reality” Is Only Half True
"Your thoughts create your reality" is one of the most empowering — and painful — phrases in the personal growth world. Here's where it goes wrong, why it creates the same trap as the diet and exercise model, and what the distinction actually is that sets you free.
When Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work — Try This Instead
My cat was dying and I couldn't think a single happy thought. All the affirmations and positive reframes in the world did nothing. Here's what actually pulled me out — and why it works when nothing else does.
What My Sick Cat Taught Me About Trusting the Process
I kept telling my ailing cat "if you only knew how much I love you, you couldn't possibly be scared." And then it hit me — what if that's exactly what the universe is saying to us when life gets hard? Here's the thought that actually brought me peace.
Why Figuring Out the “Cause” of Your Weight Struggle Keeps You Stuck
My cat was very sick and I kept torturing myself — what if I'd caught it earlier? What caused this? If I can just find the cause, I can fix it. Sound familiar? Here's why looking for the cause of your food drama keeps you trapped — and what to focus on instead.